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Interviewing the Interviewer Asking
probing questions may be appropriate-just be careful how and what you ask.
Job
interviewing is a unique experience. It's the occasion for job seeker and employer
to explore matters of mutual interest to determine whether a long-term relationship
is advisable. To use a familiar metaphor, it's like having a whirlwind "courtship"
to decide whether the parties should walk down the aisle to say, "I do, I
do." In
the context of an employment interview, the two parties are not exactly on the
same plane. The interviewer is in a position to ask more detailed, probing questions
than the job seeker. If the interviewee is hesitant to address all issues and
concerns, the employer can withhold a job offer. On the other hand, if the interviewee
asks questions that are deemed inappropriate, he or she can be ruled out for not
being properly respectful. Given
the fine line between answering and asking hard-hitting questions, how can an
interviewee scratch the surface to learn more about the ensuing "marriage"
in case the employer "pops the question"? Furthermore, what kinds of
questions are suitable when interviewing the interviewer? Here are some pointers. Ask
serious questions respectfully.
The
most important objective in interviewing is to establish rapport, mutual respect,
and confidence that information shared will be accurate and honest. No one wants
to enter a long-term relationship based on misperceptions or false promises. After
rapport is established and you get "good vibes" from the interviewer,
it is appropriate to voice questions that get to the heart of the matter as to
whether this would be a mutually satisfactory union. The key is to ask questions
that any serious job seeker would voice if she were not desperate to land a job.
Here are some examples of questions that are appropriate to ask the Human Resources
representative:
The
interviewer might answer such inquiries openly or honestly-or she may hedge on
providing direct answers. If the interviewer bristles at such questions or hesitates
in responding, you can respectfully indicate that you are seriously interested
in the opportunity, but you want to be certain that you make the right career
move. After all, you expect to stay a long time in your next position. That's
understandable, isn't it? Broach
delicate questions carefully. As
the interview "courtship" proceeds-perhaps over a series of conversations-it's
quite fitting that the prospective hire should learn more about the individual
that he or she would be matched with as immediate supervisor. Questions like these
come to mind:
Again,
some bosses might look askance at these questions; others would take them in stride.
There's nothing inherently wrong in raising these inquiries. It just makes good
sense to voice them in the right tone, at the right time. Trust
your instincts. If the other party's voice inflection and body language indicate
a feeling of uncomfortableness, then it's probably wise to curtail further questioning
along these lines. If the interviewer feels that you are "grilling"
him, more than likely he will be prone to shorten the conversation. In that event,
a pending occupational "proposal" will probably not be extended. Negotiate
terms of employment wisely. Okay,
the interviewing has gone well. After a series of conversations, the employer
indicates that they desire to take you on board. Before extending an actual offer,
the interviewer (probably your prospective boss) wants to get a better feeling
for what your hot button is. He specifically asks, "What would you be looking
for in terms of an offer?" The best response is to answer a question with
a question, or series of questions:
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